proxy probe: verify CONNECT+TLS+data-plane, extract accepts target host

HTTP probe previously tested forward-proxy GET only, so extraction
returned "alive" proxies that cannot tunnel HTTPS (CONNECT 400/EOF).
All three protocol probes now require: handshake -> CONNECT target:443
-> real TLS handshake with cert verify -> tunneled HTTPS HEAD reply.
Extraction accepts ?host= to probe the consumer's real target site
(e.g. vivid2api sends host=chatgpt.com); probe timeout 3s->6s and
batches 4->8 since the usable rate against strict checks is ~7%.

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